Hi Darlings, today we're diving into the fiercest of Lilith placements—Lilith in Leo in the 11th House. Yes, this one’s for all of you bold souls who feel that tension between wanting to stand out in your community while also struggling with deep, hidden desires to break free from social expectations.

If you have this placement, trust me, it's a powerful one. Lilith in Leo is royalty, honey—full of pride, passion, and a need to shine. But when she's placed in the 11th house of community, social networks, and the collective, things get a little...complicated. You feel the pull between embracing your individuality and fitting into the crowd, and it can be a bit of a cosmic tug-of-war. Let's break down exactly how this impacts your life, relationships, and how you interact with the world at large.

So, what does Lilith in Leo in the 11th house really mean? Lilith represents our raw, untamed feminine energy—the part of us that refuses to be controlled or silenced. When she’s in Leo, she’s all about *being seen*, demanding attention, and living unapologetically. Leo Lilith is proud of who she is, she’s not here to shrink or play small for anyone. But the 11th house... well, that’s the house of social groups, friends, and the collective consciousness.

This placement creates a deep tension. On one hand, you’ve got that Leo fire within you, urging you to be bold and stand out, but on the other, there’s the 11th house energy pulling you toward blending in, being part of a community, and fitting within certain social norms. It’s like being the lion who’s *meant* to be the queen of the jungle but suddenly finds herself at a dinner party where everyone’s wearing the same suit and tie. You get me?

Let's talk about your social dynamics. With Lilith in Leo in the 11th house, you might find that you’re always the one who stands out in social groups, whether you like it or not. Maybe you’re the unofficial leader of your friend group, or maybe you’re that person who always gets side-eye from others because you’re not afraid to be different. But here's the catch: this can create friction.

You see, Leo Lilith doesn’t want to conform to social norms—she craves attention and recognition for being her bold, authentic self. But the 11th house is about blending into the collective, working for the greater good. So, you might find yourself in situations where you’re torn between going with the flow and being the person people expect you to be... versus showing up as your true self, even if it ruffles some feathers.

Let’s be real: this placement can also stir up some inner conflict when it comes to seeking validation from others, especially in the age of social media. This is the dark side of seeking approval in the collective. With Lilith in Leo, you want to be seen—you want people to recognise your uniqueness, your creativity, your bold spirit. But sometimes, that craving for recognition can turn into a toxic cycle where you start relying too much on external validation from your peers, social media, or your community.

You might post something online, hoping to get a ton of likes or praise, but even if you do... it never feels enough. That’s because Lilith in Leo teaches you that the recognition you seek can’t come from outside sources. It has to come from within. If you’re constantly chasing approval from your social circles, you’re going to end up feeling empty—because the truth is, you’ll never fully fit into a mould that isn’t meant for you. Seeking Validation = Losing Authenticity

So how do you own your Lilith energy in the 11th house? The key here is learning how to balance your fierce individuality with the desire to be part of something bigger. Instead of trying to fit into pre-existing social molds, create your own. Find or build communities that celebrate uniqueness, where you don’t have to dim your light to make others feel comfortable.

Lilith in Leo teaches us that the more authentic we are, the more we naturally attract people who truly appreciate us for who we are. When you own your Lilith power, you’ll find that the right people will be drawn to your energy—not because you’re conforming to what they want, but because you’re radiating your true essence. And that’s magnetic. Authenticity Attracts the Right Tribe

The spiritual lesson here? It's all about self-acceptance. Lilith in Leo in the 11th house is challenging you to shine brightly without needing others to validate your worth. You’re not here to conform or hide your brilliance—you’re here to show the world what true confidence looks like. And when you do that, you naturally give others permission to do the same.

So embrace your wild, radiant self. Stand tall, stand proud, and remember that your individuality is your greatest gift to the collective. Until next time, stay cosmic, stay fierce, and always let your light shine bright.